Course Description
This workshop is all about your own leadership self-awareness, identifying your call to courage as a leader and the learning, practice and integration of the four courage skills sets so you can show up authentically in life and leadership. Dare to Lead™
COURSE OBJECTIVES:Recognize vulnerability as the emotion we feel during times of uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure.
Explain why courage requires vulnerability.
Establish a link between what I learned and behaviors I want to change.
Recognize the critical role that self-awareness plays in daring leadership.
Give examples to support how armor – not fear –is the greatest obstacle to daring leadership.
Identify the four skill sets that make up courage: rumbling with vulnerability, living into our values, BRAVING trust, and learning to rise.
Recognize that courage is a collection of four skill sets that are measurable, observable, and teachable.
Recognize that vulnerability is the birthplace of many of the behaviors that define daring leadership, including creativity, accountability, and difficult conversations.
Give examples of why daring leadership requires showing up for hard conversations and rumbles, including giving and receiving feedback.
Agenda
The Heart of Daring Leadership
- Permission Slips
- Container Building
Armored Leadership versus Daring Leadership
- Call to Courage
- Assembling Our Armor
- Building Grounded Confidence to Replace our Armor
- Aplying the 5Cs
Self-Awareness & Emotional Literacy
- Developing Emotional Literacy
- Getting Curious About Emotions
- Exploring the Iceberg
The Myths of Vulnerability
- Rumbling with Vulnerability
- The Six Myths of Vulnerability
- Exploring Your Arena
Shame Resilience
- Shame 101
- Defining Shame
- The Physiology of Shame
- Shame Shields
- How Shame Shows Up in Organizations
- How Shame Shows up at Work
Empathy and Self-Compassion
- Attributes of Empathy
- What Does Empathy Look Like?
- Empathy Misses
- Comparative Suffering
- Self-Compassion
- Talk to Yourself the Way You Talk to Someone You Love
- Empathy & Self-Compassion Commitment
- Supplemental Exercise: Kristin Neff’s Self-Compassion Scale
- Supplemental Exercise: Putting Empathy, Curiosity, and Rumble Tools in Action
Living Into Our Values
- Living Into Our Values
- Values Clarification
- Taking Values from Professing Words to Practicing Behaviors
Grounded Confidence and Rumbling Skills
- Grounded Confidence and Rumbling Skills
- Rumble Starters
- The 5Cs of Strategic Thinking, Decision Making, and Delegation
- Using the 5Cs
- Supplemental Exercise – Gritty Faith & Gritty Facts
- Supplemental Exercise – Horizon Conflict
Engaged Feedback
- Giving Engaged Feedback
- Recognizing Defensiveness in Feedback Conversations
BRAVING Trust
- BRAVING Trust
- Square Squad
- Rumbling with Self-Trust
- Trust with Others
- Trust on Teams
- Rumbling with Living BIG
Learning to Rise: The Reckoning
- Learning to Rise: The Rising Strong Process
- The Rising Strong Process
- Getting Emotionally Hooked
- Offloading Hurt: Barriers to Reckoning with Emotion
- Strategies for Reckoning with Emotion
The Rumble and The Revolution
- Writing My SFD
- The Delta
- The Revolution: When the Process Becomes a Daily Practice
- Supplemental Exercise – Reset and Resilience Practices
Integration
- Dare to Lead Integration Plan
Audience
Team leaders, managers, executives, and other business and IT professionals who lead others as well as Individual contributors ready for transformational self-development as a leader